Upcoming Events
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Grab your leash, strap-on those harnesses, and join us for a sultry night of red lights, dancing and impact play on and off the cross with sexy kinksters.
The Gay Barn is taking over Crush Bar on THIRD Saturday's (new weekend!), for all the kinky queer fun you've come to expect from Strapped, now gayer than ever. This month, DJ 0nania is back!
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Kinky looks and masks encouraged
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Every third Saturday!
Saturday May 18, 9pm-1am
Crush Bar, 1400 SE Morrison St
$10 at the door, cash only
Pride events from The Gay Barn!
Ho-Down Throw-Down - June 30
Lavender Rain - July 19
Strapped - July 20
More details coming soon
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About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
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The Gay Barn produces and hosts vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs or zesty straights).
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Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
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*We are an events production company, not a venue!
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
Photo by Phoenix Semrau
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
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We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties.
Billy is a butch dyke with many years' experience working in events production and sound engineering. Emma is a femme lesbian who works as a psychic medium and professional witch. They are both white, cis, and in their late 30's. They met in Portland, Oregon in 2011.
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