Upcoming Events
Dirty Dyke - MYSTERY GAMES and Cruising Party
Are you ready for Dirty Dyke 2.0?
We LOVE this cruising party and getting rowdy with y’all, but after two serious injuries at the arm wrestling table, we have decided to try something different. Many of you made some fun suggestions like thumb wrestling, or paper rock scissors, and although those are beloved classics, we couldn’t picture an entire tournament of thumb wrestling being very exciting for very long.
We decided that the tournament will be a series of random challenges called MYSTERY GAMES!
These challenges will be both physical and mental, and there will be only one champion taking home all of the glory! Although the tournament is changing, this is still a cruising party, so don’t forget to bring your hankies and get skanky!
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Friday June 20th, 9pm-12:30am
Sign up by 9:45 to play
The High Water Mark
6800 NE MLK Jr Blvd
$10 cash at the door
Discount for masking and hanky code flagging
The Gay Barn's Own Hanky Code
Side note: Yes, we know that some of the colors above are not historically accurate! We have our reasons. Flag traditional colors if you prefer! We mostly just want Portland folks to have an ice breaker that will get them talking and connecting (not just nonverbal cruising!). Ty!
Solstice Heat
The Gay Barn presents Solstice Heat - an intimate, vetted play party for dykes and the queers who love them.
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The longest day means it’s time to play. Summer is heating up, and pain sluts are for beating up. There’s no more rain, so dole out some pain!
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The kinky fun happens at a private playspace fully equipped with beautiful fetish furniture, multiple play areas, and toys galore. The Gay Barn will provide light snacks, cold NA drinks, supplies, and good vibes. There will be about 15 people at this party.
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This event is exclusively for dykes and dyke-adjacent queers (of the non cis-male variety), who are 21 and older. TERFs, SWERFs, and zesty straights need not apply. We do not tolerate racism, transphobia, or fatphobia at our events!
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The first step to attend Solstice Heat is completing the vetting form (link below). We will respond as soon as possible via email. Add TheGayBarn@proton.me to your contacts to make sure it doesn't end up in the spam folder! Payment instructions will be in the invitation email. Once you have paid in full, your spot is reserved!
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​Space is limited! Fill out the vetting form to apply.
Saturday June 21st, 8pm-12am
SE PDX, address will be shared with vetted guests
​$90 - $110 sliding scale
50% BIPOC discount available
Dirty Dyke - Pride Edition!
Friday July 18th, 9pm-12:30am
Sign up by 9:45 to play
The High Water Mark
6800 NE MLK Jr Blvd
$12 cash at the door
Discount for masking and hanky code flagging
Always more coming soon!
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Photo by Mason Rose
About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
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The Gay Barn produces events and play parties for kinky homos, with an emphasis on creating dyke spaces. (*We are an events production company, not a venue!)
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Twice a year (or so), Billy and Emma host vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs, SWERFs, or zesty straights). ​Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
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​The Gay Barn also produces monthly, quarterly or sporadic events in Portland that never disappoint. Whether it's arm wrestling, a pop-up strip club, or play party, we bring The Gay Barn vibes to local venues! Join our mailing list to stay updated on all our latest events.
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
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We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties. - Billy and Emma