Upcoming Events
Filthy Dyke
Kink & Cruising Party
Spend another Friday the 13th with The Gay Barn at Filthy Dyke - our newest kink and cruising party for dykes and the queers who love them.
Y'all blew us away last month! The impact scenes on stage, the brave slut-walk sluts, the cruising table, the shadow play... 🥵 Filthy Dykes are here to stay - with more to come!
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Are you looking for a daddy, or want to show off your collar? Or maybe an impact top to make you squirm and holler? Or how about a sub, or a a sassy little brat? Or perhaps a femme dom with a baseball bat?
Flag with your hankies to speed up the cruise. Bend over for a stranger and take home a bruise! Hard-pack on the dance floor with a switch who can host, or recruit some new friends for an after-party spit roast. Sexy people, pervs, and freaks, THIS is the cruising party you seek!
The vibe is harnesses, boots, leather, fishnets, latex, mesh, chains, fetish gear, collars, leashes, and kinky looks. But there is no dress code, wear whatever makes you feel hot! *Note: the venue space is private, but the bar area is open to the general public.
Whether you’re cruising for a date, new friends, or just some community vibes, join us for a night of togetherness, dancing, and debauchery featuring:
🔥 Hanky code cruising & Cruising wall
🔥 Slut walk at 10pm and 11pm! - Billy will help you cruise! Cum on stage, show off your hotness, and Billy will tell the crowd what you’re looking for!
🔥 Impact play! We will have our St. Andrew’s cross and spanking bench available for use. We will have some impact toys available, but you are welcome to bring your own.
🔥 Local kinky vendor
🔥 Shadow play area - sponsored by QueerCrush!
Friday 3/13, 9pm-1am
The High Water Mark
6800 NE MLK
$12 cover
Dyke Underground
Spring Is Sprung!
Spring has arrived, time to feel alive! Light’s getting stronger by the day - but night’s even better when you’re gay! Let’s all get sprung and have some fun.
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Dyke Underground: Spring Is Sprung is your latest chance to party with The Gay Barn and an intimate group of dykes and queers in the beautifully appointed private dungeon at Sub Rosa PDX.
All guests are vetted and must receive an invitation before purchasing a ticket. Spots are limited! Click below to learn more and apply.
Saturday 3/21, 8pm-12am
Sub Rosa
Kinky Dyke
A PDX Kink Week Event
Party with The Gay Barn during PDX Kink Week at KINKY DYKE! We are taking over the back room at Peacock PDX for a night of kink, connections, and community for dykes, lesbians, and the queers who love them.
PDX Kink Week is a city-wide celebration of the kinkiest city in the country, expanding the opportunities for community, beyond the con (KinkFest) and into the spaces and shops that keep it weird year-round. The Gay Barn is a proud Presenting Sponsor of Kink Week. Click here to learn more.
The night features opportunities to cruise, a steamy shadow play area, on-stage Slut Walk, Pro Walk for Dommes and other SWers, impact play areas, a strap sucking contest, and more! (Stay tuned for more info on signing up for the strap sucking contest!)
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This party is ABDC - Anyone But Cis Dudes! Come meet, connect, and play with dykes and queers in a kinky space made for us, by us.
Saturday 4/4, 8pm-close
Peacock PDX
1400 SE Morrison
$12 cover
Homos Take the Lake
Applications now open!
Always more coming soon!
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About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
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The Gay Barn produces events and play parties for kinky homos, with an emphasis on creating dyke spaces. (*We are an events production company, not a venue!)
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Twice a year (or so), Billy and Emma host vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes, lesbians, queers and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs, SWERFs, or zesty straights). ​Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
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​The Gay Barn also produces monthly, quarterly or sporadic events in Portland that never disappoint. Whether it's arm wrestling, a pop-up strip club, or play party, we bring The Gay Barn vibes to local venues! Join our mailing list to stay updated on all our latest events.
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
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We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties. - Billy and Emma