Upcoming Events
Homos Take the Lake
Limited camping spots still available!
Click above to get all the details and apply!
Filthy Dyke
Kink and Cruising Party
Get ready for another night of debauchery at Filthy Dyke, our favorite kink and cruising party for dykes and the queers who love them!
This month we want you to show us your rope! Calling all rope tops and bunnies - we want to see what you can do! Bring your favorite materials, practice your favorite ties, and rope in some dykes. (Impact and other play are still of course welcome and encouraged!)
The vibe is harnesses, boots, leather, fishnets, latex, mesh, chains, fetish gear, collars, leashes, and kinky looks. But there is no dress code, wear whatever makes you feel hot! *Note: the venue space is private, but the bar area is open to the general public.
Whether you’re cruising for a date, new friends, or just some community vibes, join us for a night of togetherness, dancing, and debauchery featuring:
🔥 Cruising! Flag with a hanky, a toy, or however works for you
🔥 Cruising table for written notes
🔥 Slut walk at 10pm and 11pm! - Billy will help you cruise! Cum on stage, show off your hotness, and Billy will tell the crowd what you’re looking for!
🔥 Impact play! We will have our St. Andrew’s cross, spanking bench and massage table available for use. We will have some impact toys available, but you are welcome to bring your own.
🔥 Local kinky vendor - Stripped Down Leather
🔥 Shadow play area - sponsored by QueerCrush!
Friday May 8, 9pm-1am
The High Water Mark
6800 NE MLK Jr Blvd
$13 advance or at the door
There will be plenty of door tickets available!
Our events are exclusively for dykes, lesbians, and dyke-adjacent homos who are 21 and older. TERFs, SWERFs, and zesty straights need not apply. We do not tolerate racism, transphobia, or fatphobia at our events!
Always more coming soon!
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Photo by Mason Rose
About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
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The Gay Barn produces events and play parties for kinky homos, with an emphasis on creating dyke spaces. (*We are an events production company, not a venue!)
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Twice a year (or so), Billy and Emma host vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes, lesbians, queers and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs, SWERFs, or zesty straights). ​Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
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​The Gay Barn also produces monthly, quarterly or sporadic events in Portland that never disappoint. Whether it's arm wrestling, a pop-up strip club, or play party, we bring The Gay Barn vibes to local venues! Join our mailing list to stay updated on all our latest events.
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
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We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties. - Billy and Emma